The truth about love. Tell us your stories
by Marissa Gallo | February 2, 2010 at 1:30 pm
Posted in Your Say, b the paper, relationships, sex
So crazy in love {thanks, stock.xchng}
Good, bad, hilarious, heart breaking, embarrassing.
Everyone has a love story … and we want to hear yours.
Tell us your tales of REAL love.
Leave us your story in the comments or e-mail me at marissa@bthesite.com.
Maybe I’ll tell you one or two of my own …
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February 2nd, 2010 at 5:49 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
When the woman who would become my wife developed ovarian cancer, she told me that we could still be friends if I wanted to end our relationship. I told her that I would not abandon her when she needed me the most. Although she fought it with everything she had, she was deemed terminally ill less than 3 years later. I count myself lucky that we were able to get married, and fullfill her dying wish.
Because the number "3" had surrounded her, I had her portrait tattoo'd on my chest on(what would have been) our 3rd wedding anniversary.
Strangely enough, 3 years after her death, I met my current girlfriend. On Christmas Eve, my late wife came to me in a dream, and gave us her approval. I was hugging my girlfriend, when my late wife appeared behind us. I saw her, and asked, "Do you approve?", she simply smiled, nodded, then faded away. As she faded, I said, "Thank you".
February 2nd, 2010 at 11:01 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
Your wife is looking out for you John. Great story...I am still waiting to read your book on you and your wife that you wrote!! I want to buy a copy!
February 3rd, 2010 at 3:42 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
omg thats the saddest story I've ever heard.. you my friend are a scholar and a gentleman
February 3rd, 2010 at 4:29 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
Tim- I'm working on it again. I've actually making some headway on it. After I began the initial writing of it, I started to not want to type so much, so I bought a mini tape recorder, and started babbling into it whenever the mood struck me. I figured I could go back later and type it all out. I'm working on sorting the tapes out, because initially, I didn't mark them. :-(
Saw- Thank you. It is much more complicated than I wrote there, but as Tim eluded to, I'm working on a book about us. I'm hoping to have it published later this year. :-) I will make sure everyone knows when it's coming out.
February 2nd, 2010 at 11:08 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
When I was 25, I dated a stripper lol. And NO they are NOT wild like they are on stage! They are tired when they get off of work. And when this GF was living with me, I found out...her and her stripper friends snorted Heroin. I gave her a week to go clean..it never happened. Strippers are NOT good GF, dont waste your money on these dirtbags at the club either. Normal woman are better! Find yourself a good normal woman...and give her your money, you will feel better about it, at the end of the day!
February 3rd, 2010 at 7:54 am | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
The most important lesson a young man can learn. Never, EVER date a stripper. There's a reason they ended up on the pole, and it's not because they excel at relationships and/or honest living. Yes EVEN the one that says she (or he) is doing it to pay their way through school. This is not to say that SOMEDAY they might make a good partner in a relationship...just not while they are actively working out their abused childhood.
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February 3rd, 2010 at 1:14 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
Yeah I agree with you 100% ycktr. I was young back then, and when alot of guys are in there 20's it seems like it would be cool to date one. Lol...its true of what you said...yeah that is why they excelled on the pole, and most of them do have mental issues.
February 3rd, 2010 at 1:08 am | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
IT WAS love at 1st site, as he stepped out of the shower his muscles rippling, his flesh wet yet so alive. AS he dried his torso the heat from the shower escaped from his cooling flesh. THIS adonis of a GOD looked familiar as our eyes met in the steamed bathroom mirror. I pulled closer to the image in front of me as i grew excited with passion. I lifted my hand slowly, guiding it with anticipation toward the image that beckoned me to adore it. I COULD hear my own pulse quicken as i reached forward to wipe more steam from the mirror, hopeing to steal 1 more look at this gift in front of me. THATS when it happened, as we locked eyes, and exchanged undeniable gratifying eye contact. I fell in love...with me. FOR the image in the mirror was none other then my own. HAPPY VALINTINES DAY
February 3rd, 2010 at 7:55 am | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
This is actually sort of funny.
Score one for you yaknow.
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February 3rd, 2010 at 3:43 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
you forgot to add that this all took place in a meth den.....
February 3rd, 2010 at 4:31 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
Hey, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. ;-)
February 6th, 2010 at 12:44 am | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
Lol sawxfan...yeah he forgot to tell us he was taking Meth lol.
February 3rd, 2010 at 5:03 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
So there was me, and I had to go to work in a few hours, so instead of spending it with my then girlfriend, and because it was a snowy Valentine's Day, I went and visited this other girl I had the hots for. I just wanted to wish her a happy Valentine's Day, and we ended up having lunch and walking around together for that little span of time.
It made me happier than I could ever imagine.
February 3rd, 2010 at 5:06 pm | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
what a douche
;)
February 6th, 2010 at 3:55 am | Please log in to reply. | Log in to rate this comment | report this comment
IM IN LOVE WITH MARY JANE.."confessions".... MARYS always sticky when i light her fire. YOU should smell her aroma as her essence fills the room. MARYS a dime, her love is a crime, but we still slow grind to BOB MARLEY like all the time, shes my forever VALENTINE, more precious then fine wine, i love the way she makes my bling-bling shine, she already had seeds when i met her, but i love em like their mine.