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QUESTION: I’m a girl in love with a girl, but she has a boyfriend. We have been close friends for some time now and agreed to date secretively. One night she confessed to me that she wanted to leave him for me. Every time I say, “then why haven’t you left him yet?”, she tells me, “I don’t know how.” What should I do?

LADAWN SAYS: I think you need to find out if she is unhappy with her boyfriend. She could be in love with and attracted to you and still have a decent relationship with her man that she finds comfortable and easily accepted. If this is the case, then she may never come totally your way because frankly she is not sure if she wants to admit that she loves women. There is a lot here for your friend to consider and you have to decide if you are willing to put in the time and work to get her to a place of understanding or if it is best to protect your heart and move on.
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QUESTION: I am in the process of a divorce. Throughout my marriage I remained friends with my ex-boyfriend, who lives in another state. I recently visited him. He is handsome; he has no children; he has never been married. But his mannerism is strange. He constantly looks at himself in the mirror and is self-conscious about his looks. I think he is narcissistic because he is a personal trainer. I wanted to take a picture and he wouldn’t let me because he hadn’t shaved yet. Before I left we hugged, then he said, “You didn’t get makeup on my shirt, did you?” He never took the initiative to hold my hand, give me a hug, etc. Only when we were intimate did he act normal. Since I returned home, he has been distant. When I ask him how he feels, he says he cares for me but is waiting for God to show him if I am the one for him. Is he one of those DL guys?
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I didn’t know he was still alive! I have to hand it (no pun intended) to the guy, he looks damn good for his age. Something for everyone to consider…

From today’s b, the paper

QUESTION: I just got out of a 10-year relationship with what I thought was the man of my life. We have one child together; he has nine with three other women, but together we raise them all. We call ourselves single but still live together. He has his friends, and I have my friends. The reason we are not together is his friends. I feel he picks them over me — not to mention he has cheated before but says he never had sex with these so-called friends. At times I still find myself getting mad when his phone rings. And on top of everything, I think I am falling for another dude — it could just be the great sex. I need some help.
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No bragging, just a fact, but I have no need for a Wonder Bra. Needless to say, if i were to wear one, I’d be afraid for my safety and would stay away from all glass windows.

Good advertising.

Check out these new ads for the Wonder Bra:

Watch your step or the train will amputate your breasts

Woops, broke the glass

From today’s b, the paper

QUESTION: I had what I thought was a friend of five years. My now ex-friend broke the ultimate girlfriend code of conduct. Yes, you guessed it: She slept with my daughter’s father. The whole situation is just ridiculous and childish. You know they say misery loves company, and she is one miserable b—-. She has three kids and no life, and came between the piece of a relationship my daughter’s father and I had. What can I do to repair the relationship with my child’s father and move on?
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What’s the fuss all about? Check it out below…
Discuss: Do you think it’s that bad? Either way, enjoy.

From today’s b, the paper

QUESTION: There is a woman I love/care deeply for and want to marry. However, we are not together right now because she is hung up on a bad guy. She ended a pregnancy by this guy, who is terminally unemployed and has sired children he doesn’t support. He’s living in a Section Eight apartment on welfare and admittedly sleeps with different women when she is at work. She’s well aware of this behavior. Do I continue to be a supportive friend and watch her destroy herself or try to intervene with a heart-to-heart discussion/letter imploring her to change course?
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From today’s b, the paper

QUESTION: I don’t like when my man performs oral sex on me. When he’s doing it, I am thinking about something else or watching TV. Some of the men I have been with noticed this, but I really didn’t care because they weren’t around long. But I am really in love with this guy. He notices that I don’t like it. He loves to perform oral sex on me and I let him but I would rather be doing some other foreplay than that. What’s wrong with me? Aren’t all women supposed to enjoy oral sex?
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From today’s b, the paper

Start your Christmas lists!
A slew of new so-called “personal sex machine” prototypes were unveiled last week at the Adult Novelty Expo in Universal City, Calif. What, you didn’t go?
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